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Amateur Radio / Re: Snotty Hams
« on: November 13, 2022, 0313 UTC »As far as the second part goes, speaking as someone who's only relatively recently licensed, I find that though there are clubs around and folks say they want to welcome more to the hobby, they still often (perhaps subconsciously) have a standoffishness about them as if it's more up to us to try to show we belong than it is on old hands to welcome new blood.
I’ve been in clubs where no one talks to you until you have been there for 6 months, and I have been in clubs where they purposefully station people at the door to grab the new faces, say hello, and welcome them aboard. My current club has a reputation for welcoming newcomers, both at the meetings and on the repeater. We have one old timer in particular who never lets a new callsign on the repeater pass by without greeting them and telling them about the club.
I wouldn’t read too much into a “standoffishness” being because they don’t want new blood. It may be as simple as they are introverts and uncomfortable with any new faces until they get to know them. I would wager there are more introverts than extroverts in ham radio. Odd for a hobby where the major activity is meeting strangers on the air. Maybe that is why so many like FT8 —- QSOs with no personal interaction!
Unless the club/members exhibit outright hostility, the right answer is to be friendly, approachable, and be patient. You will know soon enough whether that group is a good match for you. They may very well not be. Every club is a bit different and there may be another nearby club that is a better match.