What I like to see in a given hf rig is a 90dB imd3, 120dB blocking, -130dBm sensitivity without preamp, and excellent audio. Those specs get you to the point where, barring the band noise, the transmitters distortion is the limiting factor in reception with such a system.
A lot of rigs come close enough to the above specs to be more than usable. With the most common background noise on hf being around -120, anything that hears down to -125dB will be more than enough unless you have poor antennas, then some additional gain can help.
As to antennas, I'd rather have an outstanding rig and mediocre antenna than the other way round. After all, if the background noise comes up when you connect the antenna to the antenna socket, that's about all you need. That said, a beam is the closest thing to cheating for radionerds.