Anyone else sick of POTA, Special Events, & State QSO Parties? Let's go WARC!

[ThaDood]

OK, I'm going to rant, but I for one will be kind of glad when Cycle 25 finally takes a dump. When you do want to sched a QSO with someone on 160M, 75/80M, 40M, 20M, 15M, and especially 10M, it seems that there's always some sort of special events on-air. Well, those special event stations are fine, but when they just come on the FREQ that you are on, and ignore you and your friends, and just start calling for whatever event they are doing, that's gauche. Just last night, myself, and two other ops on 10M, were FREQ hopping to get away from wherever events were last night. This XYL came on FREQ and started her event, while we were on QSO'ing. We kept saying, "The frequency is in use!", but we were ignored. And, I know that she had to hear my friends, running like +300W, where I was running barefoot. So, ran around for like a third time to find a decent FREQ, and finally found that the 10M Call FREQ was empty 28.400MHz. (Go figure...) Now granted, some of these stations are running split VFO FREQ's, but isn't it proper etiquette to first ask, "Is this frequency in use?", before going on with your event, when you know that propagation is wide-open? Well, apparently not anymore. Fortunately, we do have a few alternatives, like the 17M, 12M, and even the 5 channeled 60M, bands, I believe that contests are not allowed on those. Case in point, ARRL Field Day rules, under OBJECTIVES, lists the allowed bands.  https://www.arrl.org/field-day   Not the WARC Bands and 60M. (This, is just an example.) Other alternatives??? VHF and above. Sure, there are those VHF / UHF, & microwaves, contests, but for the most part you will not be bothered on 6M, 2M, 222MHz, 432MHz, and up, in SSB, AM, whatever mode. And, I'm trying to get more activity around here on those bands, besides just FM 2M, anyway. Point is, that's an option. I don't operate in the HAM Bands that often, maybe a few times a month on weekends, but is anyone else sick of chatting with a friend and having a special event station barge-in? I can't be the only one.     

[tennessee]

I agree on contesting. SOTA and POTA don't bother me so much, as it seems those ops are laid back. Otherwise, weekends on 10 meters can be ridiculous. Last weekend was so bad that I heard SSB way up in the FM portion of 29 MHz. Good grief. Forget about having a regular CW chat during CW contest weekends. 12 meters is good, but it's crowded there, too. The CW portion is very small.

30 meters is my go to most times, anyway. All sorts of weird stuff there to enjoy, as well as easy going QSOs. Installed a full sized rotary dipole atop the tower and it's a blast. The ability to null noise and annoying ops is a plus.

A little more courtesy and asking if the frequency is in use (QRL?) would be nice. As you said, it's rarely an issue on VHF & UHF.