I think there's a few factors at work here. First, the ionization level has been pretty weak, especially now that we're entering winter. Here's a graph of the foF2 value for Wallops Island VA, which you can consider typical for the east coast of the US (the blue line are today's readings so far:

This is the highest frequency that will be reflected for a vertically incident signal (straight up and down). Higher frequencies at more shallow angles will be reflected. Once this drops much below 7 MHz, NVIS for the 43 meter band effectively shuts down. Notice how it sits around 4 MHz for much of the night. This is when the band has "gone long". You'll hear distant stations, but nothing within a few hundred or even a thousand miles of your QTH. You can view the current data here:
http://www.ngdc.noaa.gov/stp/IONO/rt-iono/realtime/WP937_foF2.pngSecond, here's a map of the foF2 values:

As you can see, they are higher to our south. This could explain why you are getting better propagation from the south, vs east or west.
And don't forget, it is only November. It's going to get much worse as we get further into winter. May I suggest MW or even LW DXing
