Cousin?!!? Good grief. You've just ruined my reputation.
I sure hope we aren't related through the southeast Virginia branch of the family...
Well, now that you mention it.........
Did you ever hear stories about an indentured servant of the family with last name of Graves,(or Greaves, as some spell it)? He escaped into the Great Dismal Swamp, found someone (or something) to breed with, which they did like rabbits. They're now considered an invasive species in the Old Dominion and the states that border it, much like the fish known as the Snakehead.
Be careful if you encounter a Graves, they're mad as March Hares.